When a man loves a woman 2

And so a number of males have called or emailed to give me their opinions on part one. Apparently they are convinced that men are capable of growing in love. Jane and John again; Jane woes John and John agrees to give it a shot Jane and John eventually falls in love with Jane. Unfortunately I could not effectively argue because as you will know I have never been a man. And so I was defeated, although I am still of the opinion that women can grow in love but men cannot. if they do at all then the quality of love grown but men is brittle and easily broken.  

But let me try and explain myself better; two parties may be in love with one another but there is the one party that loves more than the other. And my opinion is that the machine works better when the male is the party that loves more. When the man’s role of being the lead in a relationship is taken he is left with nothing else to do, and so he does nothing. This nothingness  frustrates both parties - the woman cannot deal with it, it frustrates her because it means she has to do more work in the union than she was cut out for. The man has had his job taken away and he will subconsciously resent this demotion from lead. Both parties may actually find themselves seeking alternative partners who allow them to play their rightful role.

Because I have absolutely no experience in being a man I am forced to bring out the Great Book to substantiate my argument and remind everyone that it clearly states that husbands  must love their wives and wives must respect your husbands. Clear in black and white, the man must love the woman more.